| Merry Christmas Ryan. I love you. |
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2004-12-24 |
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| May Ryan's birthday be one of peace for your family. John, thank you for all your sharing with us at MMU today. Your words are still echoing in my ears, my heart is full of compassion. Thank you for making Ryan be SO real today. I do wish that I had met him. And, I KNOW that your sharing is saving other teens. PEACE. |
Judy Breitmeyer
2004-12-17 |
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| I am so sorry for your loss. I dont think that anything is worse then a parent having to bury their child, my heart goes out to you and your community. My prayers are with you. |
Chloe Porter
2004-12-16 |
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| I'm so sorry about ryan i don't know him or if this will even help but heres a song that cheered me up when I lost my friend |
victoria paige resor
2004-12-14 |
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| I am very sorry for your loss. I am about to teach a group of 6th graders about bullying and internet safety. I plan to use your story to put a face to the very real problems that kids face when at school or on the internet. Thank you for sharing your story and pain so that we all might learn how to prevent such a senseless loss. |
Detective Doug Wall
2004-12-14 |
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| John and Kelly I recently read the article by George Tyler concerning Ryan's death, "a parents' worse nightmare". The facts are very disturbibg to me as an educator for more than 30 years. It is so true that we are fighting an uphill battle against society and parents who are unprepared to handle this complex issue. My prayers go out to you and I am more motivated to continue the war on bullyi...(trimmed) |
David R. Smith
2004-12-10 |
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| I'm so sorry for the tragic loss of your son. My heart goes out to you and your family. My son was also bullied at school for nearly two years. His teacher actually made the situation worse when we went to her looking for help. In the end we took him out of school for a few months to give him time to chill out and he felt able to return, and we found a more caring school for him. That was 4 years ...(trimmed) |
Susie Long
2004-12-07 |
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| I LOVE HTIS SITE, WAOOO, GUY MEN WAKA PASS,, I DON LAND HERE. |
MGBADA IMO
2004-12-03 |
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| Hi. I was looking up my surname and I came across your son's website. I'm very sorry to hear his story. It's all too common and i just wanted to commend you for being brave enough to tell yours and your son's story. My thoughts are with you. |
Kelly Halligan (UK)
2004-12-03 |
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| Ryan, I never knew you personally, but when I look at your pictures I see the familiar face of a beautiful, intelligent sensitive person and although I never spoke with you, I met your dad. a brave man who is willing to help others in honor of you. Ryan, you will always be loved and respected and you have deeply touched my life and the lives of so many. Peace. |
Nancy Mildrum
2004-12-01 |
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2004-12-01 |
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| Its a shame that we live in a society where a children bully other children, to a point where they take their own lives. Before I looked at the site I wondered why my friend gets lost in this cause, and now I know. I am so glad that Adrianna pours her time in such a worthy cause. |
Jason Watts
2004-11-22 |
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| I think of you often. There, but for the grace if God............ You yre doing wonderful work and I'm looking forward to actually meeting you in AZ. Take good care of yourselves. |
Lorraine Jaffee
2004-11-12 |
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| Hi..im so Sorry 2 hear About your Son I Had 4 friends commit suicide and im olny 16 now and its 2004..So i Understand What You Must Be Goin Through and i Kno Its Not Easy Not at All i Lost 4 Real Close Friends 2 suicide in 2 years and im Thinkin Bout it Myself..But I kno whut it would do 2 everyone thats why Im Goin 2 get help thanx fer listing and sorry About Ryan may God Bless u and your Family ...(trimmed) |
Courtney
2004-11-02 |
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| as i scroll down and notice all of the "i never knew you" i never was close to you" "i wish i were your friend" things, in a way ryans story has helped people not to be so cruel to others because you never know what you can lose in the blink of an eye. we all miss you very much ryan. |
marissa
2004-11-01 |
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| i miss u ryan.......i really do |
adrienne
2004-10-22 |
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| I just read about Ryan's story in The i-SAFE Times after attending a seminar on bullying. I live in the Kansas City area, we are hearing about Ryan's story in the mid-west. Ryan's parents keep up the good word and spread the knowledge of suicide and bullying prevention. As a soon to be graduate in social work, the knowledge from Ryan's parents and the seminar I attended will help me in the field....(trimmed) |
Nina Towles
2004-10-19 |
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| Hey ... I just wanted to write again... as the 1 year of losing Ryan passes, just to say how much we all miss you!!! we love you Ryan.. dont ever forget this... |
Logan
2004-10-15 |
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| Ryan we miss you so much! |
Katie
2004-10-12 |
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| i miss you ryan...i really do |
sarah helmes
2004-10-10 |
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| i miss you ryan...i really do |
sarah helmes
2004-10-10 |
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| ryan, i miss you so much. i cared about you like no one i have ever cared about before. you were a friend, and my boyfriend for a while. i cannot believe you would do something like this but it is to late now. i am miserable, completely and utterly miserable. i cant sleep and the thought of you makes me almost think of suicide myself, but that would only make things worse. i miss you so much and ...(trimmed) |
Sarah Helmes
2004-10-09 |
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| Dear Ryan, i did not know you like many other people, however i have read about you. i cannot sleep with the thought of your loss and after reading your story i have become extremely insecure and scared. you cannot begin to imagine the pain i am feeling for you and your family and even though i am not sharing the same pain your family is, i am always thinking of you, forver. |
Adrienne Ramponi
2004-10-09 |
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| I did not know Ryan. I read in the news paper and saw the website. So sorry for your loss. |
JJ
2004-10-08 |
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| Hey Ryan, I wish I knew you better. We were just starting a band and I was the drummer. I was looking forward to getting to know you better. I will never forget you, the missing guitar. -Brad Woods |
Brad Woods
2004-10-08 |
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| Ryan, oh Ryan. I'm thinking of you. And your Mom. And your Dad. And your Sister. And your Brother. And all your Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and friends. We all miss you so much. I am still horribly confused. And really, very sad. |
Phillip Kellogg
2004-10-08 |
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| We miss you Ryan. |
Cara McSoley
2004-10-07 |
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| I didn't really know Ryan all that well, but i was really good friends with his sister up through middle school. My sister was also friends with his sister as well we so sorry beyond belief about what happened to Ryan no parent should have to go through something as horrible as that. Our thoughts are always with all of you.I had a friend commit suicide over something that could have been prevent...(trimmed) |
Jess LaCroix
2004-10-07 |
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| i miss u ryan.... |
dustin mazgaj
2004-10-07 |
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| Its been a year now, I just wanted to say that I miss you Ry. I wish we could go to another Blink 182 concert together, you, me, and steven. (good times) Miss you so much buddie -Collin |
Collin Quinlivan
2004-10-07 |
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| John and Kelly, My thoughts and prayers are with you on this day. My son was a special friend of Kyrsten, who committed suicide in Barton in March. He has also been a victim of bullying and harrasment. This site and Ryan's story have helped tremendously. Ryan's life was a gift that has had a huge affect on others... With love, Liz |
Liz Butterfield
2004-10-06 |
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| So sorry for your tragic loss. As the October 6th anniversay approaches, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We're committed to trying to prevent similar incidents in Virginia. Thank you for sharing your son's story so that others realize the seriousness of bullying. |
Adrianna Sgarlata
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| im so sorry for what happened to ur son |
kara
2004-09-27 |
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| my heart goes out the family of Ryan. You were a very great boy. |
sunshine
2004-09-22 |
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| to me he was, the greatest of all, to sweet to kind. very happy. even though i have never met him. i will be praying for u |
cindy franey
2004-09-21 |
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| My prayers are with your family. I can only imagine the courage you must have in living through this, and as an educator, realize that by sharing your tragedy, you have awakened many to a danger that they were previously unaware of. Thank you and may God bless. Margie |
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2004-09-21 |
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| Im sorry - God in His wisdom called You to Him God in His mercy Called You home. We might not understand the why God called you for we know not the plans of Divine Plan But we know that you are flying with the angels in the presence of Him. So child of God fly, spread your wings wide You know no pain or sorry only the love of God But you keep looking on the horizon for the day of the golde...(trimmed) |
Chris Rosen
2004-09-18 |
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| Thanks for the site. I wish we had the chance to meet Ryan, however, his story will help me look out for my son Alex more intensly. |
Alan Lavell
2004-09-14 |
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| I never really got to get to know Ryan all that well. I got to spend a whole day with him once at school though, and I just wondered how anyone could not like him! He was funny, and always had a smile on his face. He was the kind of person that if he smiled at you, you just had to smile back. I'm so sorry he had to go through this, no one should have to. But he left a good impression in my heart. |
Mikaela
2004-09-13 |
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| I am researching better ways to teach internet safety to junior high students and your site has given me great direction for my discussions with the students. I envy your courage to pass this on and to increase suicide awareness. Thank you. |
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2004-09-13 |
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| Hi. I am one of Meghans friends who was one of many to hear what happened the morning of the event. I and 6 other girls were pulled out of class and sent to the guidance office. As we all sat around the big conference table we were told not to worry. But of course we did. Especially when the guidance counsler walked in and put Kleenex tissues on the table. My heart dropped. Megan wasn't in chemist...(trimmed) |
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2004-09-11 |
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| Hi. I am one of Meghans friends who was one of many to hear what happened the morning of the event. I and 6 other girls were pulled out of class and sent to the guidance office. As we all sat around the big conference table we were told not to worry. But of course we did. Especially when the guidance counsler walked in and put Kleenex tissues on the table. My heart dropped. Megan wasn't in chemist...(trimmed) |
"ADL Stories"
2004-09-11 |
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| My son is being bullied and I am devistated by learning about Ryan! My heart goes out to you & your family!! I am so glad you did something about bringing bullies out into the open and holding them accountable! |
Kellie
2004-09-02 |
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| These last few days as I have been preparing my son to attend EHS as a freshman, my thoughts have gone to Ryan and his family.My son Gordy and Patrick visited Ryan's grave last nite after orientation,and left momentos. They have not forgotten their classmate. You are in my prayers. |
Sue Whitne
2004-08-31 |
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| My deepest sympathy, John and Kelly. In this horrible tragedy, I am encouraged that you have the courage to share your story with us all to help the millions of other kids just like Ryan. Working in a junior high school, I am inspired to try even harder to to do everything within my power to stop senseless bullying. I hope more educators and parents learn the seriousness about the pervasive and...(trimmed) |
Jim H.
2004-08-27 |
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| Rest in Peace, Ryan. You were a wonderful boy. God is always with you. |
Ally
2004-08-25 |
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| I am such a coward for taking this long to check this site. It hits very close to home. I love you and pray for you always Mom Bonatz |
Nancy Bonatz
2004-08-22 |
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| I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. I lost my son to suicide a few years ago. It's the worst pain imaginable. Please know toy are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless |
Dean
2004-08-09 |
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muuguu
2004-08-08 |
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| (cont.)you have become a famous hero, not for being an amazing guitarist or a wonderful actor, but for preventing many kids from bullying or committing suicide. I and many others will never forget you. Happy 15th birthday in 4 months! I'll pray for you and your loved ones, and maybe,someday, I'll see you up in heaven! Love you! |
Hannah (continued from below)
2004-08-05 |
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| I've already written in here once before.Time has passed quickly,Ryan's class has graduated ADL,sadly,without Ryan. It's amazing how much we all think of you, and how many people are still writing to you and your family in here. Ryan,there will always be a place for you in future fame and fortune;you deserved to be a famous actor or guitarist.Though it was never the way anyone wanted it, |
Hannah
2004-08-05 |
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| Ryan you were an amazing kid , you deserved to live longer, you deserved to live and to have kids, and friends even I do not know you but I really think you were I promise I will tell Your story to my friends here in Saudi Arabia, now your deserve to sleep in peace with God |
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2004-08-05 |
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| Ryan was just an amazing kid he deserved to live and get older he deserved ............... to be alive may he sleep in peace now and forever |
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2004-08-05 |
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| dear john, this website is just awesome. I do so wish it were not necessary, and that I could have met Ryan, living and breathing instead. Thank you for all that you are doing to honor and protect life. |
cory gould
2004-07-28 |
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| Thanks Halligan family for the strength and courage to pursue goodness out of tragedy. God bless you all!!! |
Rob Evans
2004-07-28 |
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| Thanks John, thanks for the 'Bully Bill,' Thanks for this web site. |
Dave Bowers
2004-07-26 |
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| I'll tell you a story of a friend I once had, Thinking of this person only makes me sad. I though I knew his secrets because he told me so, But why he had to take his life ...only god will know. I was in a car when I heard of his death, I began to cry and couldn't catch my breath. As I walked to his coffin to lay a flower on his chest, I whispered to myself have a peaceful r...(trimmed) |
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2004-07-26 |
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| Hi, I am a 16 year old girl, I feel very, very deeply for you and you husband. From what I have read from your site, I have found that Ryan was an amazing kid, and although I never met him, it is such a shame the he is gone. I also go through what he did, but from reading all this I have found that suicide, is not the way. It such a shame that such an amazing young boy is gone. May god be with you...(trimmed) |
Milly (Australia)
2004-07-21 |
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| i want to express my deepest sympathy for your last as a parent myself i could not stand if i lost my children. |
kesha sweat
2004-07-07 |
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| John & Kelly, you must know our hearts ache for you. We will be diligent in our work for this cause. Kris & Jan |
Jan & Kristine Berberian
2004-07-07 |
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| I came across your website doing research on school bullying.As a mother of three my heart breaks for you and your family Thank you so much for your courage. |
Kelly
2004-07-06 |
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| IM JESSICA HARVEY! I NEVER REALLY KNEW RYAN I MEET HIM TWICE. ALL I KNOW IS I REALLY FEEL FOR THE PARENTS THAT LOST RYAN. I KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO LOSE SOMEONE YOU LOVE TO SUICIDE. BUT LOOK THERE WILL ALWAYS BE BULLY'S TO THE END OF TIME AND IF YOU LET THEM WORRY YOU YOU COULD END UP LIEK RYAN. WHEN YOUR DEAD YOUR DONE. UNTIL GOD COMES. WHY WASTE YOUR LIFE ON SOMETHING SO FORGETABLE WHEN YOU COULD...(trimmed) |
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2004-07-03 |
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| in the life god gives us he lets us make our own dessitions. killing our selves is not a good way to deal with life because when your deasd there is nothing else. no life, no tears, noe feelings, worry, no nothing, everyone will have a bully but its up to you to stand for yourself and not let it get you down those bully;s i know are sorry . but you were dearly loved . may god bless you |
jessica harvey
2004-07-03 |
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| I love the page. |
uzoagba
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uzoagba
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| I am concerned about my daughter who is 16 and has been diagnosed with major depression. She does not want to take medication so her condition is untreated. I have been on a waiting list for 4 months to see any psychiatrist who specilizes in this field. It seems unacceptable that given the severity of this illness I can't get an appt with a specialist. |
Barbara
2004-06-01 |
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| i miss u ryan! |
dustin
2004-05-30 |
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| I am from Alabama and I was just surfing the web and came across your sight. I am greatly sorry for your loss, this information was very helpful God Bless |
Jenny
2004-05-30 |
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| i am so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose someone that you really love and adore. May you be blessed and loved in many different ways. thank you for passing your son's life long story. Again I am very sorry john. oh yeah thank you for coming to my school jfk middle school and talking every one was crying. Sorry megan |
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2004-05-28 |
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| i was just crusin the net and i found this site i am a 17year old guy that has once or twice thought of suicide but i would never have the guts to do it especialy now after reading this highly emotional report im sorry for all the things that you people have gone through |
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| When I was 11, my 9 year old brother was hit by a car. My mohter never got over it. Nor did I. She had lost parents, brothers, sisters, but nothing compared to losing a son. When my own son turned 9, he almost died and survived with a bone marrow transplant. I KNOW how blessed I am. God Bless You All. |
Robin E. Hood
2004-05-26 |
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| If all our children who are victims of bullying placed their shed tears together in one spot...another ocean would be created. May Ryan's law prevent the silent suffering of others. And his purpose will ever be fulfilled. |
Gina Rossi
2004-05-26 |
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| First I want to say how sorry I am for your loss. No Parent should have to endure what you have. Second I want to say Thank you for writing and passing this new law. I am a mother of a special needs child and many times have had my child come home upset because he was being picked on at school. Thanks to you, schools can no longer ignore the bulling. |
Milly
2004-05-20 |
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| Our thoughts and proyers go out to your entire family. The Berndts. Your friends from Long Island. |
Rainer Berndt
2004-05-19 |
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| Congratulations on passage of Bill H.629. None of us who have been drawn to sharing in your loss will ever forget the price you are paying as we also note the tremendous good that is growing out of it. |
Tom Kemp
2004-05-19 |
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| Hello John, Kelly, Megan, & Conner, We,( Mike Manzi, Jim Quinlivan, & Larry Jeannotte), all from Carriage Hill Lane, Poughkeepsie,NY would like to inform you that we will be running in the Vermont City Marathon, Burlington,VT as a relay team in memory of Ryan. The name of our relay team is 'RyanPatrickHalligan.com' My friends and our family will never forget your loving son, Ryan. This is a ...(trimmed) |
Jim Quinlivan
2004-05-18 |
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| Words can't begin to express how sorry I am to hear of your son. I too was bullied through my entire time at school. I can assure you the effects last well beyond adolescence. As a 48 year old man, I am only now beginning to deal with everything that I went through when younger. I thank God that the bill in Vermont has passed, I hope that the news gets to my hometown of Greenfield, Mass. Massachus...(trimmed) |
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2004-05-11 |
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| I didn't know Ryan but I know people who knew him. I am bullied terribly at my school and I'm also an eighth grader about to graduate in High School. I've been picked on since 3rd grade and it wasn't just a couple of people. I didn't have any friends. The earliest I started considering suicide was 5th grade. It started with scratching my arms with pins or pencil tips. Then I accidently cut a...(trimmed) |
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2004-05-07 |
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| My daughter was bullied at school horribly. WE reported it to the schools, and most teachers were aware of the bullying but NO one did anything because they were scared of the bullys themselfs. Then finaly at the end of my daughters 7th grade year she was brutialy attacted by several of her bullies and hurt. I have filed a lawsuit against the school for their involvment with not preventing what is...(trimmed) |
Katherine Nava
2004-05-07 |
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| I am so sorry for your loss. My daughter is in her first year of middle school and 3 weeks into the school year we dealt with our very first "bully". A classmate made a "people to kill" list and my child's name was on it. I was mortified to say the least. The bully was slapped on the wrist and sent back to class. My daughter stayed home for almost 2 weeks because she was afraid he was going t...(trimmed) |
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2004-05-06 |
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| I am so sorry to hear about what happened to Ryan. There are many out there that suffer as he did. I've seen that often and mainly at Columbine High School on 4/20/99. Thank you for speaking out on this sensitive subject and sharing with others how to get help. Your family is in my prayers. |
Ruthie Owen Moreno
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| I was reacently at woodside and my teacher told us all about your son. She had us read articals and watch shows and everything about teen suicides and i cried over what i learned about your son. I am sorry that you have to experience that kind of thing. I am 14 years old and I tried to commite suicide but i am glad i am here and i am glad that my mom or my brother or sisters didn't have to experie...(trimmed) |
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2004-05-05 |
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| We pray for Ryan's family; it is truly obivious by their work on this website, just how much they continue to love. I thank you for your efforts and respect you for what life you may be saving in the future. Reading all the information throughout your website; I have come to a conclusion, we all must become active in this cause. Ryan; I prayed for you when your were a little baby; and I continue ...(trimmed) |
Martina Rodriguez-Oldham
2004-05-04 |
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| I'm so sorry to hear your son. I lost a brother to suicide at the age of 24. My prayers are with you, and your family. |
Judy A Myers
2004-05-01 |
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| I salute you both!! In the midst of such grief you will make a difference for some other youngster. There are so many ways kids at school are mean to each other- to the point of bullying, intimidation and harm. I saw this as a former teacher-and a victim as a young girl. May you continue 'til this is adopted by all the US schools. Bless you, Janie |
Janie Schoenbaum
2004-04-29 |
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| I'm so sorry to hear this story. My older brother committed suicide 12 years ago. He was only 16. It still hurts to this day. Like you I am still trying to put all of the pieces together, but I know feeling outside of the things didn't help him. I have learned that things happen for a reason, hopefully people will hear of your son's story and decide to be kinder to eachother. |
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2004-04-29 |
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| Dear Ryans family>>>My heart hurts from all the innocent children we lose each day because of bullying>>>>I need each and every person that sees this website to take action>>>write letters to state reps. and schools accross America to stop bullying NOW!!! We can make changes and stop bullying.God bless, fatherfightsback |
Dodge Taylor
2004-04-22 |
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| "Suicide is not so much the desire to die, as it is the fear of living" I totally agree with that.. This world is a scary place- I just wish Ryan could have known how many people would have been willing to help him out!! Ryan you are always remembered |
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2004-04-22 |
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| My heart goes out to your entire family. I teach at Woodside, and hope to teach the message that bullying can hurt and sometimes kill. I wish you all the best. |
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2004-04-19 |
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| about two years age, ryan used to come down and play with my brother kevin and i remember that i had a little crush on him, one day when he was over i followed him around with my video camra anoying him telling him that i loved him and that he was cute and trying to give him a kiss on the cheek...but he was to quick for me lol, he had such a contagious smile and eyes that you could stop staring in...(trimmed) |
Heather Correia
2004-04-17 |
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| "You say that I'm a dreamer I'm not the only one, I hope someday you'll join us and the world will live as one." It's a shame that things had to get this far before people started doing something about bullying. I'm so sorry! |
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2004-04-16 |
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| There isn't a GLSEN chapter registered anywhere in VT. Anyone know why? Since homophobia and hate played a role in Ryan's death, exactly what GLSEN works to wipe out... |
Brad
2004-04-16 |
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| You guys are very strong people and I'm sorry about your son, bullying is horrible thing and something needs be done about it. |
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2004-04-09 |
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| tell anyone they told me if i did tell anyone they would Kill me. so I didn't even tell my dad. Tell this day I have never told anyone it took this tragedy to open me up. As A child I was bully'ed by so many kids why because i did not have a mother PLEASE put a stop to these bullys and SIGN THE BILL PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE |
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2004-04-08 |
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2004-04-08 |
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| I did not know Ryan but I have heard of his story on the news. My heart goes out to his family, Grandparents, & Friends anyone who knew him. I have a Grandaughter that is being bully'ed at school I have talked to her Teacher, she is doing her best to put a stop to this. but she seems to be the only one really doing anything. There is this girl that picks on my Grandaughter all the time. today they...(trimmed) |
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| I did not know Ryan but I have heard of his story on the news. My heart goes out to his family, Grandparents, & Friends anyone who knew him. I have a Grandaughter that is being bully'ed at school I have talked to her Teacher, she is doing her best to put a stop to this. but she seems to be the only one really doing anything. There is this girl that picks on my Grandaughter all the time. today they...(trimmed) |
Sue
2004-04-08 |
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| Peace. |
Betsy
2004-04-08 |
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| I did not know Ryan, but I would like to send my apologies to John and Kelly for your loss. It sounded like he's a great kid and this shouldn't of happened. He was just too young. I can't explain how sad this makes me, to know that there are people out there putting others down just to make themselves feel better. God Bless and take care. |
Jess
2004-04-08 |
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| We need to get the message out: "Cruel is NEVER Cool". |
John Wilson MD
2004-04-06 |
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| I hope Ryan's loss will motivate us to show patience and love to each other always, especially when its hardest, especially when it takes the courage to not go along with the crowd. God bless you for sharing Ryan's story in spite of the terrible pain and loss. I'll be watching my children even more carefully now and trying to protect them from the effects of bullying. We need to get the message...(trimmed) |
John Wilson MD
2004-04-06 |
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| Dear John & Kelly, My prayers and thoughts are with you always. I can't imagine the pain you have felt. You are doing the right thing to try to stop the bulling in schools. You have my support 100%. God Bless You All |
Joan
2004-04-05 |
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| Ryan, hope there is peace and comfort for you now. To his parents, I almost lost my son last year. Every day I pray that he will be strong enough to come to me first, and not try suicide again. |
Louise Hill
2004-04-05 |
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| Ryan, dude...I was just thinking about you today. We all miss you...especially your family and friends. I hope your feeling better, up in Heaven, where you belong. Your a good person, and I'm so sad that some stupid people are cruel enough to make someone so unhappy...Miss ya, dude. Cya later. |
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2004-04-03 |
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| Heard about your son in the newspaper and I send my prayers to you and your family. I have this web page on my favorites link. |
Aide Ramirez
2004-04-02 |
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| ryan..i no its hard but thats how life is its not easy livin wit out u... i almost wish i would have gone wit u i miss and i wish we would have spent just alil more time tageather i coulda helpped i blame myself -rents im sry bout ur loose i just wish some day we will all come tageather and smartin up and stop killin or selfs untill then we can only pray |
heather
2004-04-01 |
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| Thank you for having the courage to tell your story. I hope that through your experience, I can create a better environment for my children. |
Alison
2004-04-01 |
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| To the halligan family: my heart goes out to all of u and hope u put bullying to a stop, u have my full suport!! ur in my pryaers! |
amy
2004-03-31 |
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| (CONTIUED FROM TOP) eyes of bullies and showed them their actions towards others can make a bigger impact of their life than they may think, u've touched so many people Ryan Patrick Halligan may ur soul rest in peace |
amy
2004-03-31 |
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| ryan, i will never fully understand why u did what u did, buti know in my heart u felt u had no other escape although we r all devistated u left us, i think u also gave us insight and knowledge of the real emotional damages of bullying contrary to what people think, and we need to stop and think about what our comments and action may affect the other person. i think ur tragic actions opened the e...(trimmed) |
amy
2004-03-31 |
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| Wishing Ryan's spirit peace and his family a sense of comfort as they attempt to endure this tragedy. May the children in our community realize that there are other options despite the overwhelming pain they may feel... |
A counselor
2004-03-28 |
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| My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in your loss of Ryan. Thanks so much for sharing your story with everyone. I know it will help other kids and parents to see the signs in themselves, their friends or their children. You will be saving anothers life. |
Tamra Augostino
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| Ryan, I know your up there, in Heaven where you belong. You'll always stay in our thoughts. It doesn't matter if We were all best friends at ADl or not, because we all still miss you at one point or another. I'm sorry you went through all that stuff. I know other people, including myself who are harassed daily by people in school. Just know, again, that we all miss you. Meet up with ya someday, Ry...(trimmed) |
Just another class mate.
2004-03-26 |
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| Ryan's story has moved me to become actively involved in the fight against bullying. In both children and adults. I have been inspired by Ryan to use kindness and love against anyone who feels the need to bully me or anyone else. |
Shane
2004-03-26 |
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| i'm so sorry. i read the article in the newpaper and understood that he might feel that way because of why he was bullied. i've been bullied and certainly thought about ending it all. but my dad always says,"Suicide is a permanant solution for a temporary problem." |
Taylor Stevens
2004-03-25 |
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| Hi Mr & Mrs. Halligan - I saw the article in the paper the other day and then today for the first time I hd the opportunity to see your sight. You son had such love in his eyes in the pictures where he is with you. I am a single mother of 4 children ages 12-10-9-5. This 12-13 age is so difficult as I can remember and my daughter deals with the bullying all the time. The "suicide" words have b...(trimmed) |
Bonnie
2004-03-25 |
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| I didn't know Ryan, but I really do appreciate your story. I'm very sorry about your son, thankyou for letting me know him. I'm sure if I knew him i would of liked him. Thankyou, keep the memories in your heart, and keep sharing your story. |
Lindsey
2004-03-24 |
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| ididnt know ryan its very sad hearing that what he did in our school we are talking about bullying our nurse brought the paper in and showed us i was very sad i hope ryans family feels beter soon good luck |
katie durand
2004-03-24 |
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| I an so sorry for your lost. As a mother and as a person that was a child once, other kids can be very hurtful & mean. We all need to change this. |
a mother
2004-03-24 |
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| ryan story is very sad and from looking at his webpage and guestbook you can see how many people his story is helping. thank you for sharing ryans story, it must be very hard for you to talk with people about him and to share your personal life. I am sorry for you loss, ryan was a cute kid!! |
kimmy
2004-03-24 |
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| I'm sorry about Ryan. I didn't know him or anything. I've tried to take my life before... this webiste made me so sad. It's hard to think about what people would be like if I actually had died, this helped me understand something I need to still understand. Thank you. And you know, Ryan's a hero. He's a hero, he's saving peoples lives now. He wouldn't have been who he was if it wasn't for you. He'...(trimmed) |
another kid
2004-03-24 |
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| I just read about your family in the paper. I know you have heard a million im sorrys,but I know what yoiu have gone through. I lost one of my best friends to suicide. I know how much it hurt and still does. Thank you for getting your story out. My thoughts are with you. |
Kari Clark
2004-03-23 |
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| My thoughts and prayers are still with your family, and I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. Thank you for keeping Ryan's story going and making people aware of suicide and bullying. It takes a lot of strength and I know that it is making a difference. This is a terribly hard situation to deal with, but I'm glad that something good is coming out of it. Ryan~we all miss you, rest in peace |
Jennifer Bleau
2004-03-23 |
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